Will This Sickness Ever Go Away

Amaris hospital check up: the inflamation still needed to subside before surgery so they scheduled it 4 weeks out, but informed me that they would for sure have to do surgery and that he would have to stay in the hospital overnight.  They also informed me that he has two ear infections and a fever of 101.  The Dr. prescribed me MORE antibiotics and medication for what she assumed was allergies.  I swear doctors hand out prescriptions way too easy.  We are holding off on the allergy medication till we get a second opinion.  I hate that he has been on antibiotics 4times in the first year of his life, but what do you do when you don't have an Uncle Jared close by to evaluate him and see what we can do holistically verses medicinally.  We are simply exhausted from him being sick every two weeks; hoping this year has administered all the sicknesses and that it is better health for all of us from here on out :(